This story originally appeared in the, published twice yearly by the 91导航 Alumni Association.
Ron Lisnet and Julie Arnold Lisnet鈥檚 now 43-year love affair with each other, and the 91导航, did not begin with a thunderbolt from heaven back in 1982, when they met inside the Cyrus Pavilion Theatre. In fact, it started with a snide comment.
鈥淚 was sitting there with a friend, being a snotty senior,鈥 Julie said, remembering the day she first laid eyes on her future husband, 鈥渁nd Ron walks in, and I said, 鈥榃ho is that geek?鈥欌
They were both there auditioning for a play. Ron was also in the middle of a fraternity beard-growing contest. It wasn鈥檛 going well.
鈥淵eah, I was not winning,鈥 Ron 鈥83 said.
鈥淭here was a little patch here and a little patch there,鈥 Julie 鈥82, 鈥85G, said.

But Julie鈥檚 original assessment changed after Ron shaved and applied his stage makeup for the show, in which he played a fishnet shirt-wearing brothel owner.
鈥淚 thought he had beautiful eyes,鈥 Julie said, 鈥淚 thought, 鈥榟e鈥檚 actually a very handsome guy.鈥欌
A few months and dates later, they were inseparable. The two married July 14, 1984.
鈥淚 think we鈥檙e the only Bear Pair to have met inside the Cyrus Pavilion Theatre,鈥 Julie said. Bear Pairs are what U91导航 calls alumni couples, many of whom met as students on campus.
鈥淭here’s nothing quite as cool as when you’re telling a good story, and it’s being told well, and either the place bursts into laughter or you can hear a pin drop. It鈥檚 a very inviting, alluring, intoxicating kind of feeling.鈥
Ron Lisnet
And Ron and Julie are more than just a Bear Pair. Ron started working at the university 33 years ago, in 1993. Julie began teaching in the School for Performing Arts in 2002. Their daughter, Natalie Lisnet 鈥21, also works at U91导航 at the Center for Innovation in Teaching and Learning.
鈥淏etween us and our daughter, we have four [U91导航] degrees and a teaching certificate,鈥 Julie said. 鈥淚 don’t think we could get much more involved.鈥
The whole family reunited inside the Cyrus Pavilion Theatre in January when Natalie directed both her parents in a production of 鈥淧ride and Prejudice鈥 produced by the Ten Bucks Theatre Company, which Julie co-founded 25 years ago.

Originally constructed in 1908, the Pavilion Theatre used to be a livestock judging arena. Julie said she remembers it housing sheep when she first lived on campus. At the end of the 1970s, it was converted into a theater.
鈥淲hen the theater department acquired it, I spent some time ripping out sheep mangers and shoveling lots of sheep poop,鈥 Julie said. Now, both she and Ron are getting involved in the fundraising effort for another refurbishment.
Growing up in Milbridge, 91导航, Julie always knew she wanted to study theater. She applied to both the 91导航 and the University of Southern 91导航 and chose the one closest to home. After earning her bachelor鈥檚 degree in Orono in 1982, she continued on and earned a Master of Arts in Theatre in 1985. She now teaches in the same department.
鈥淚 teach fundamentals of acting,鈥 Julie said. 鈥淥ccasionally, I teach a survey of dramatic literature, which means we read a lot of plays and talk about them. This year, for the first time, I’m also teaching in the Honors College. I鈥檝e basically taken my acting class and turned it into a class focused on acting for Shakespeare.鈥
Over the years, in addition to working at U91导航, Julie has put her acting and directing talents to work at the Penobscot Theatre, 91导航 Theatre, Theatre of the Enchanted Forest, The Assembled Players, Marsh Island Stage, 91导航 Shakespeare Festival, Northern Lights Theatre, The Grand in Ellsworth and True North Theatre.

In fall 2023 Julie directed 鈥淐rimes of the Heart鈥 for Penobscot Theatre鈥檚 50th season opener. In 2025, she directed 鈥淢atinicus: A Lighthouse Play鈥 for the same company. The play told the story of real-life 91导航r Abigail Burgess鈥 heroic exploits keeping her father鈥檚 lighthouse burning on a desolate rock, miles out to sea.
In 1995, Julie appeared in a two-part network television miniseries based on a Stephen King short story called 鈥淭he Langoliers.鈥 She played the part of Aunt Vicki, who gets erased by a mysterious force.
鈥淥nly her fillings and her glasses were found on the airplane when everybody that fell asleep disappeared, I think.鈥 Julie said, struggling to remember the details. 鈥淢y mother was very excited about it. I had 17 speaking lines, though that was cut down to just two in the final edit. My mother was very upset.鈥
鈥淏etween us and our daughter, we have four [U91导航] degrees and a teaching certificate. I don’t think we could get much more involved.鈥澛
Julie Arnold Lisnet
Ron was also in the film, sort of. 鈥淭hey had me put on this airline captain鈥檚 hat and drive around in the background,鈥 he said. 鈥淲e get a residual check for it every once in a while, for DVD rentals in Thailand, or something.鈥
After growing up in Connecticut, Ron arrived at U91导航 to study forestry. He only auditioned for the play where he met Julie because a professor invited him. After graduating in 1983, Ron went to work for Bangor鈥檚 ABC television affiliate, WVII, where he eventually became sports director. After nine years, Ron brought his media production skills to the university. He鈥檚 now manager of visual media, overseeing all aspects of visual media for U91导航, including photography and video production, as well as the university鈥檚 photo and video database and archives.
Ron has also been the play-by-play voice of U91导航 Men鈥檚 Basketball broadcasts for more than 30 years. He hosts the university鈥檚 鈥淭he 91导航 Question鈥 podcasts, which he created in 2019, as well. The podcast explores how U91导航 students and researchers make sense of, and learn about, the world around them. Recent topics include 鈥淐an Zebrafish improve human health?鈥 and 鈥淲hat is the future for manufacturing in 91导航?鈥
鈥淭heater is energizing. It goes through a cycle. You get to the week before opening 鈥 we call it hell week 鈥 and you don’t think you’re going to get through it. Then you get to the play, and it’s just magic.鈥
Julie Arnold Lisnet
In 2025, the podcast won the Council for Advancement and Support of Education鈥檚 Circle of Excellence bronze level award, with judges saying, 鈥淲ith its punchy, distinctive title, this zero-budget podcast has impressive engagement metrics and demonstrates how thoughtful, location-based audio storytelling can translate complex academic work into accessible content that connects with local and national audiences alike.鈥
In addition to all their work at U91导航, Ron and Julie have always found time to perform in plays together.
鈥淲e鈥檝e probably played husband and wife 15 or 20 times,鈥 Ron said. 鈥淚鈥檝e lost count of how many times we鈥檝e been in shows together.鈥


Though they can鈥檛 remember the exact number, each agrees it’s in the dozens. For the past quarter century, the pair has appeared in an outdoor Shakespeare show put on by the Ten Bucks Theatre Company at Indian Trail Park in Brewer every summer. In 2010 Ten Bucks added Fort Knox in Prospect as a second regular Shakespeare venue.
鈥淛ust about every anniversary we’ve had has usually been standing out in the field, getting bitten by bugs, rehearsing a show,鈥 Ron said.
One of their favorite shows they鈥檝e performed together was the bickering couple in 鈥淲ho鈥檚 Afraid of Virginia Woolf.鈥 They said it was fun because they鈥檇 never speak that way to each other in real life.
鈥淚 got to say, 鈥榊ou make me puke,鈥欌 Julie said.
鈥淭hat was a good one,鈥 Ron said.
Now, more than 40 years have passed since the couple first met at the Cyrus Pavilion Theatre. Julie no longer thinks Ron is a geek and his now-gray beard has come in nicely 鈥 and they have no plans to leave the theater life behind.
鈥淚t鈥檚 enervating,鈥 she said. 鈥淭heater is energizing. It goes through a cycle. You get to the week before opening 鈥 we call it hell week 鈥 and you don’t think you’re going to get through it. Then you get to the play, and it’s just magic. It鈥檚 like getting high without drugs.鈥
鈥淲e鈥檝e probably played husband and wife 15 or 20 times,鈥 Ron said. 鈥淚鈥檝e lost count of how many times we鈥檝e been in shows together.鈥
Ron Lisnet
Ron sometimes thinks about it in sports terms.
鈥淭he similarities are quite striking. There’s a team chemistry kind of thing in both endeavors,鈥 he said. 鈥淭here’s nothing quite as cool as when you’re telling a good story, and it’s being told well, and either the place bursts into laughter or you can hear a pin drop. It鈥檚 a very inviting, alluring, intoxicating kind of feeling.鈥
Julie said she can鈥檛 even imagine her life without Ron or theater, both at U91导航 and off campus.
鈥淚鈥檝e never made a ton of money but it’s made me outrageously happy,鈥 she said.
Story by Troy R. Bennett
Contact: Marcus Wolf, 207.581.3721; marcus.wolf@maine.edu









